Dating App Hinge Launches AI Prompts to Replace Boring Opening Lines

Swipe-right fatigue and awkward first messages may soon meet their match. The dating app Hinge today rolled out a new AI-powered tool called Convo Starters, designed to help users craft more thoughtful, personalized opening messages.

Many Hinge users dread sending that first message. What begins as a hopeful "like" often ends in silence when the other person fails to follow up. To tackle this problem, Hinge looked to behavioral data. Its research found that 72% of daters are more likely to consider someone when a "like" is accompanied by a message. A message with a comment, rather than just a like, is twice as likely to lead to an actual date.

Convo Starters uses generative AI to analyze your profile and then suggests three tailored ideas for starting a conversation.

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Convo Starters uses generative AI to analyze a profile — both photos and prompts — then suggests three tailored ideas for starting a conversation with the person. These suggestions might focus on shared interests, ask a thoughtful question, or prompt a deeper discussion.

In early testing, over a third of users said the feature made them feel more confident reaching out. Overall, Hinge saw an increase in the number of comments submitted with likes.

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How Convo Starters works

When you tap "like" on someone's profile in Hinge, Convo Starters may show up beneath a photo or prompt. You will see up to three personalized, AI-generated suggestions inspired by that person's profile content. From there, you write the first message in your own voice and send the like. Convo Starters does not spit out prewritten messages for you to copy and paste.

"Let them know what caught your eye or mention how their prompt connects to your own life," said Logan Ury, a relationship scientist at Hinge. "That small effort signals real interest, helps you stand out and sets you up for a great conversation."

Prefer not to have AI suggest what to say to a potential date? The feature is optional and can be turned off in settings.

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Why this matters for daters

Hinge is not a fringe dating app. According to recent estimates, the platform has roughly 30 million users worldwide. This rollout suggests Hinge is doubling down on its positioning as "the relationship app" rather than a hookup platform.

With Convo Starters, Hinge appears to be banking on the idea that many users want not only matches, but meaningful connections as well. By improving those initial messages, the app may help more people turn a match into a genuine conversation and, perhaps, a genuine date.

"We've heard from daters that not knowing what to say can hold them back from sending a comment at all," said Jackie Jantos, president and chief marketing officer at Hinge. "With Convo Starters, we're easing that pressure."

However, it also reflects a larger trend. As online dating becomes more ubiquitous, apps are turning to AI to solve communication issues, such as ghosting, bland introductions and unanswered messages.